I grew up thinking my grandparents would live forever. I have been privileged to know all four of them, seeing them on a regular basis. They look the same year-to-year, so it never seemed like they were aging as a child.
Then my grandpa starting forgetting people's names.
It's the story of Alzheimer's you usually hear. It was just different to experience it first hand.
My grandpa has always been a very slow, deliberate person. He takes time to think before he talks, while his wife and kids zoom ahead in the conversation. So, at first, his memory loss was hard to detect because it fit in with his personality.
As things progressed, it became more apparent when he couldn't remember his granddaughters' names or when he got frustrated when the day's schedule varied.
Our family began to ask, "What can we do to help?"