There is so much to lose because is so much to gain. You place everything, practically, in the hands of someone else and tell them, “Take care of these things please.” The challenge is you give them your heart without much of an instruction manual.
There are times in my life when I've had things click, those ah-ha! moments that you feel so stupid for not figuring it out earlier (it was so simple!) but at the same time, so proud that you have attained this new-found perspective. I like to share those things with you. I hope that by sharing some of my blood, sweat and tears, you can avoid the same.
Here is one of the moments that someone did that for me. I heard this on the Air1 radio station and its been gnawing at me ever since. The host, Brant, was telling about a recent argument with his wife in which she doubted him. Then he said this:
