When I was in middle school, the faculty installed big banners that promoted positive thinking on the beams above the common areas. They had words like Integrity, Respect, and Tolerance. I remember some teachers start discussing what each of those words meant in class, probably some all-school program that I wasn't fully aware of.
In class, one of my teachers defined tolerance as accepting everyone's beliefs, even if they disagreed with you. I remember her stressing this point, and even at the young age, I sensed that this word was an issue. At the time, I couldn't understand why anyone would have a problem being tolerant. If someone disagreed that handball wasn't the best playground sport, I wasn't going to hate him for saying that (even though handball IS the best playground sport). Simple enough, right?